Couples Looking For A Third? Start Here
Finding a third is easier when you both know what you want. Threesomes Dating is a dating app where couples can set up a joint profile, say what kind of person they are looking for and chat with singles near them, privately or in a group. It is free to join, so you can look around together before you decide anything.
Three Talks To Have First
The best experiences start with the two of you, long before anyone else is involved.
What you both want
Say what you each hope for, in your own words. A threesome works best when both of you are curious, not when one of you is going along with it.
Where your limits are
Agree what is on the table and what is not, and decide that either of you can say stop at any time. Revisit it whenever something changes.
How you will meet someone
Choose a public place for a first meeting, decide how you will talk to the person beforehand and agree what happens if the chemistry is not there.
Set Up Together, Chat Together
Threesomes Dating supports joint profiles, so the two of you can show up as a couple and say clearly that you are looking for a third. Add photos you are both happy with, describe what you want and keep private anything you would rather not share.
Join as a CoupleWhat you can do as a couple
- Create a joint profile, or manage individual profiles linked to one account.
- Say what kind of third you are looking for, and what you are not.
- Browse singles who want to meet couples.
- Chat in a group conversation, so all three of you can get comfortable before arranging to meet.
What To Look For In A Third
Respect
Someone who listens to both of you and treats you as equals, not as a means to an end.
Clear expectations
A person whose profile says what they want, and who is happy to talk it through before you meet.
Good communication
Quick, honest replies and no pressure. If a conversation feels rushed, slow it down or move on.
Comfort for all three
Someone you both feel at ease with. If either of you has doubts, wait.
Before You Join
Is it free to join?
Yes, joining is free. You can create your profile and browse members at no cost. A VIP membership is optional and adds unlimited messaging.
Can we share one profile?
Yes. You can set up a joint profile as a couple and say that you are looking for a third. You can also manage individual profiles linked to your account.
How private is it?
You decide what your profile shows, and private messages are encrypted. Support is on call 24 hours a day if anything feels wrong.
How do we stay safe when meeting someone?
Chat first, meet in a public place and tell a trusted friend where you are going. Agree your limits together beforehand and trust your instincts if something feels off.
Single and looking to join a couple?
There is a page for you too, and a few guides if you're new to all this.